yeap that is my time of absence here...
busy with the wedding preparations and work till i almost count of the time lost..
recently, there's random thoughts triggered by certain events. well, it's not that random thoughhts dont occur unless triggered but these event made me think further.
one of them is-how much do your friends worth?
this absolutely does not come from the thinking process of deciding ang bao monies to be given out during D-day. i was wondering about the groups of friends ppl keep in their social circle. there are ppl who could claim that the entire earth population are their friends, there are those who claimed to be your friend, there are ppl who has very little friends but are BFFs since they could remember, and there are 'surface friends'. of course the types go on and on and on...
friends like husband/wife would be willing to go through thick and thin with you, be there for you whether you are rich or poor, care for you as a healthy/sick person. however, to a certain point in time we will get into arguments/unpleasant moments with our friends, like we do to our families. but in the end, we still forgive and forget.
friends hear your sorrows, share your rantings, tell you the most unpleasant truths, feel your joy and happiness, bitch with you on the lamest things..
google may return billions of search results and of which thousands and thousands of the results carry the definition of friends. similar to all of us, we each have our own definitions and this could be the value we have invisibly tagged to our friends.